I have received a lot of email today over the post I made before this one. As a result, I think I am going to elaborate on it just a bit. You can take it for what it is worth ... or you can totally ignore it. But, when it comes to me, you might want to keep it in mind.
I have been told that I am one of the nicest people that you can ever meet. I don't know if that is true, but that is what all my friends say about me. They say I will do anything for anyone. They say I am sweet, considerate, compassionate, and empathetic. I would say I am most of the time.
I am also known for saying what I think. I don't tend to hold back either, though I may try to put something in the nicest way possible should I think you are too sensitive to handle me being brash with you ... or because you don't know me and I don't want you to walk away thinking I am being mean to you. I don't play word games with people. I don't tend to rip people to shreds over an issue or email they send me, unless I feel they deserve it.
I am not a needy person and my self-esteem is quite good. Being friends with people is something I like, not something I require. I would rather have a few close friends than a hundred acquaintances. That goes for meat-life and online. As a result, I don't care what most people think of me.
Stats don't mean anything to me. If you never read my blog again, I am not likely to care. I am not being mean, either. I am being honest. You are not going to hurt my feelings. This is my space for me to use for my purposes. If you read me and like me ... thank you. If you don't ... go somewhere else. It is that simple.
Now that all that is said, let me make sure I have one more thing clear. Don't ever think for one minute that you can make me alter any post on my site or make me feel that I have to curb what I say and do here. I am not here to suit you. This is my site. I will say what I want. If you don't like what I say, oh well. Go to your site and talk about how awful and wrong you think I am. I won't care.
If I offend you, say so. If you think I am wrong, say so. If you think that I am over the top, say so. You are welcome to. But, don't think that you can make me change who I am, what I say, or how I feel. If you have facts that show I am wrong about something ... that may sway me. If you just have your feelings and opinions ... well, good for you. I am happy for you. But, I am not changing my feelings and opinions because yours are different than mine. I don't expect you to change yours for me either.
The thing about me is ... I respect your right to your opinion. I respect your right to have a fit. I respect your right to rant, rave, and show out. I respect your right to write about whatever you choose to do so. I may not agree with you. I may even say so on your site or my own. I respect your right to do the same.
But, do not ever think for one minute that your visit to me or any links you may make to me .... that includes trackbacks ... mean so much to me that I would kiss your butt to make you feel more comfy in my space. It ain't happening. There are thousands of blogs. If you don't like the atmosphere here, find one that will kiss your butt and declare you king. You're welcome to do so. It won't hurt my feelings.
I don't sell my soul. Not for links. Not for trackbacks. Not for stats. Not for friends. Not for readers. Not for comments. If you understand that and can respect that ... then, hey ... we are going to get on just fine. If you can't ... well, don't let your browser hit your tail on the way out.